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Life often feels like a series of optimization problems. From the moment we enter the school system, we are handed scoring mechanisms: GPAs, body mass index (BMI), standardized test scores, and later, credit scores, net worth, and social media likes. We naturally strive to maximize these numbers, assuming that a higher score equates to a better life.
However, philosopher C. Thi Nguyen, author of The Score: How to Stop Playing Someone Else's Game, argues that this obsession with metrics often leads us astray. When we confuse the metric for the meaning, we risk "value capture"—a process where we outsource our internal values to external systems. By understanding the philosophy of games, we can learn to distinguish between healthy play and the gamified systems that threaten our agency.
Key Takeaways
- Games vs. Game-ish Systems: True games occur within a "magic circle" with temporary, voluntary constraints. "Game-ish" systems impose metrics on real life, often with high stakes and no easy exit.
- The Trap of Value Capture: When we adopt external scoring systems (like likes or money) as our own values, we lose the ability to determine what actually matters to us.
- Portability vs. Nuance: Metrics succeed by stripping away context to make data portable, but this process destroys the subtlety required to understand well-being, art, and community.
- Metrics as Shadows: Modern data acts like the shadows in Plato’s Cave; we mistake the quantifiable representation of reality for reality itself.
- Agency Through Playfulness: Cultivating a "playful" attitude allows us to wear rules lightly, enabling us to step back and reject games that no longer serve our true purposes.
The Distinction Between Games and "Game-ish" Systems
To understand how metrics manipulate us, we must first define what a game actually is. Nguyen draws on the work of philosopher Bernard Suits, who defined playing a game as the voluntary attempt to overcome unnecessary obstacles.
In a practical activity, you aim for efficiency. If you are starving and need fish, using dynamite or a net is the logical, efficient choice. However, if you are sport fishing, those methods cheat the purpose of the activity. You voluntarily accept the constraint of using a rod and reel to create the experience of the struggle.
The Magic Circle
Crucially, true games exist within a "magic circle." This is a social boundary where the rules apply, but the consequences do not bleed out into the real world. If you betray a friend in a game of Risk or defeat your child in Super Smash Bros, the social contract remains intact once the console is turned off.
The danger arises with "game-ish" systems—structures like social media, high-frequency trading, or corporate hierarchies. These systems utilize the compelling mechanics of games—points, leaderboards, immediate feedback—but lack the protective boundary of the magic circle. The scores in these systems have real-world consequences, impacting our finances, careers, and social standing.
The Seduction of Portability
Why do we surrender our judgment to these external scoring systems? The answer lies in the tension between nuance and portability. Theodore Porter, a historian of science, argues that there are two ways of knowing: qualitative and quantitative.
- Qualitative knowledge is rich, context-dependent, and subtle. An academic advisor knows a student is brilliant but struggles with testing; a film lover knows a movie is challenging but rewarding.
- Quantitative knowledge creates a standard "kernel" that remains stable across different contexts. An "A" grade or a "90%" on Rotten Tomatoes means the same thing to everyone, regardless of background.
We rely on metrics like GPAs and Rotten Tomatoes scores because they are portable. They strip away complex context to facilitate easy communication and comparison. However, this efficiency comes at a steep cost.
"Information that I have... that this student is not good at test taking but incredibly good at community building and very original... all that important information gets squashed out into a 'B'. A 'B' does not carry that information."
By prioritizing the score, we filter out the "high variance" experiences—the polarizing movies, the eccentric students, and the unconventional career paths—in favor of what is easily measured and universally palatable.
The Phenomenon of Value Capture
The most profound danger of gamified life is "value capture." This occurs when we enter a system with rich, subtle values (such as a desire for health or education) but eventually replace them with the system's simplified metrics (such as step counts or GPA).
It is difficult to track "learning" or "intellectual growth" internally. It is effortless to track a 4.0 GPA. Because the metric is loud, clear, and socially validated, it often shouts down our quieter, internal sense of purpose. We end up optimizing for the score rather than the underlying value.
The Fly Fishing Analogy
Nguyen illustrates this with a stark contrast in fly fishing. One method, dry fly fishing, is difficult and artistic, focusing on the beauty of the cast and the challenge of the catch. Another method, "Euro-nymphing," is highly efficient at catching fish but arguably less enjoyable to perform.
When the metric (number of fish caught) overrides the purpose (enjoyment of nature and skill), fishermen find themselves miserable, using efficient techniques they hate just to increase their score. They have been captured by the value of the game, forgetting why they started playing in the first place.
Metrics as the New Shadows on the Wall
This reliance on metrics creates a modern iteration of Plato’s Allegory of the Cave. In Plato’s allegory, prisoners see shadows on a wall and mistake them for reality. Today, metrics are the shadows.
We have substituted that which can be counted for that which is real. We begin to believe that if something cannot be measured—like community health, cultural tradition, or emotional depth—it does not exist or does not matter.
Data is exceptional at measuring context-invariant realities, such as mortality rates or bridge stability. It fails, however, when applied to context-dependent values like health or art. What constitutes a "healthy knee" differs vastly between a 20-year-old Olympian aiming for gold and a 60-year-old wanting to walk pain-free. A single metric cannot capture both realities.
"We have substituted for our sense of reality that which can be quantified, metrified, and datified."
Regaining Agency Through Playfulness
How do we escape the cave? We cannot simply reject all metrics; modern society relies on the scale and coordination they provide. Instead, we must cultivate agency and playfulness.
In game studies, there is a vital distinction between the goal and the purpose.
- The Goal: What you are trying to achieve inside the game (e.g., checkmate the King, get the ball in the hoop).
- The Purpose: The reason you are playing the game (e.g., to relax, to bond with friends, to exercise).
In a healthy relationship with games, the purpose dictates the goal. If the game stops being fun (the purpose), you stop playing. In a gamified life, we often forget the purpose and obsess over the goal.
Reflective Control
Playfulness, defined by philosopher Maria Lugones, is the spirit of moving lightly between different rule sets and worlds. It is the ability to "try on" a game without succumbing to it dogmatically. A playful person can engage with a metric—like tracking macronutrients or investment returns—for a specific utility, and then discard it when it no longer serves their broader values.
We must treat the metrics of society not as objective truths, but as tools. We must exercise "reflective control"—the capacity to step back and ask, "Is this game serving me, or am I serving the game?"
Conclusion: Choosing the Right Game
The digitization of the world has made it easier than ever to track, rank, and optimize every aspect of human existence. While these systems offer the benefits of scale and efficiency, they threaten to flatten the human experience into a spreadsheet.
The solution is not to abandon games, but to recognize our power as players. We have the right to modify the rules, to reject the leaderboard, and to choose games that align with our own definitions of a meaningful life. When the score no longer reflects the value, it is time to stop playing someone else's game and start designing your own.
